Surprise Toxic Family Member Arrival Protocol
SOP-F004 · 👥 Social & Family
Immediate response procedures for unannounced arrivals by difficult or toxic family members — rapid decision-making with zero preparation time.
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🚪Identify and Assess (Before Opening)
⚡Rapid Partner Consultation (15 Seconds)
📊DEFCON Classification
🔒Door Response — Do Not Open
🚶Door Response — Doorstep Only
🏠Door Response — Brief Indoor Visit
👶Ezra Protection
⏰Ending the Visit
💬Handling Common Scenarios
📝Post-Visit Actions
🔄Repeat Offenders
Troubleshooting (6)
Let them in against better judgement: Set immediate time limit; minimise engagement. Discuss holding boundary next time.
They push past into house: 'You need to leave right now.' Serious conversation about future contact.
Baby boundary violated during short visit: Intervene immediately; visit ends. Restrict future baby access.
Partner disagrees about admission decision: Handle visit as agreed; discuss privately later. Alignment session before next time.
They claim emergency requiring entry: Assess: real or manipulation? Offer to call help. If fake: major trust violation.
You freeze and don't know what to do: Default: 'This doesn't work right now.' Close door. Prep more next time.