Planned Toxic Family Member Visit Protocol

SOP-F003 · 👥 Social & Family

Boundaries, protective measures, and response protocols for planned visits from family members with toxic or problematic dynamics — prioritising emotional wellbeing and Ezra's safety.

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🤝Partner Alignment Session (1–2 Weeks Before)

⏱️Define Visit Parameters

🛡️Prepare Boundary Responses

🏠Environmental Preparation

📋Day-Of Protocol

👁️During the Visit

👶Non-Negotiable Baby Boundaries

🚪Wrap-Up Protocol

🆘Emergency Exit Protocols

💛Post-Visit Recovery

Troubleshooting (7)

Boundary repeatedly violated: State consequences and execute. Discuss limiting future visits.

Partner criticised or attacked by family: Other partner intervenes firmly. Debrief; decide on contact reduction.

Ezra grabbed or handled inappropriately: Remove baby immediately; end access for visit. Consider no unsupervised access.

Screaming match begins: Disengage: 'This conversation is over.' Cool-off period before any contact.

Visitor refuses to leave: Clear statement; call for help if needed. Document; limit future home visits.

Emotional breakdown during visit: Tag out; other partner handles. Self-care priority; process together later.

Family member says something cruel about Ezra: Immediate intervention; visit ends. Significant consequences for future contact.